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Friday, May 28, 2010

The biopsy

Friends
Our circle of friends have just received the news from the doctor and Kathy was right in her own diagnosis (as usual). She does have a very fast growing cancer and is at peace with this news. She has decided against treating the cancer and would rather just enjoy her days with her friends and loved ones.

We don't know yet what the next days will hold. Kathy will be here at the hospital for the night (Friday). Kathy wants to go to her lake house and North Carolina soon if possible.

The family is gathering from out of state. We know you love her and want to be in touch. Kathy will need to rest up for a couple of days. Leave your comments and wishes and contact info on this blog. As soon as Kathy is ready for visitors, she will be in touch.

11 comments:

  1. Dear Kathy,
    We grieve for the meaning of this news---and we are in awe of your courage.
    Bob and Elisabeth

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  2. Kathy, I hope your time in North Carolina is filled with blissful experiences.

    If in Ashville, look up Radavie, formerly Faye Young of Gainesville.

    Christy

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  3. Kathy: sara and Lauren here. We are heavy at heart with this news. We are not at all surprised that you are at peace with the decision that has come down. That is WHO YOU ARE. We are thinking of you with light, love and open arms. AND joy. We love you. Lauren and Sara

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  4. With sadness we hear the news. With joy we celebrate kathy.

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  5. Sending love and peace to you over the miles. xoxok

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  6. Kathy, Julie, and all your other loved ones...both Suse and I send love and peace and joyfulness in this time of treasure. My brother Marty also sends his love from China...travel easily Kathy...much love, Marilyn

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  7. Kathy & Julie:

    My heart, too, is heavy at this news. I don't know what to say or write on my own right now.

    Doug would like to request the Kwan Seum Bosal chant in Kathy's name at the Gateless Gate Zen Center. Would that be okay?

    Here is a passage from part 12 of Mary Oliver's poem "Evening Star" (from The Leaf and the Cloud) that reminds me of you, Kathy. (You are the "me" and the "I" of the poem.)

    "Think of me
    when you see the evening star.
    Think of me when you see the wren
    the flowing root of creek beneath him,
    dark silver and cold

    Remember me I am the one who told you
    he sings for happiness.
    I am the one who told you
    that the grass is also alive, and listening.

    alleluiah alleluiah
    sighs the pale green moth
    on the screen door,

    alleluiah alleluia
    the red tongues of the white swans
    shine out of their black beaks
    as they shout
    as their wings rise and fall

    rise and fall

    oh rise and fall

    through the raging flowers of the snow.

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    "Kwan Seum Bosal, known as Avalokitesvara in Sanskrit, is the bodhisattva of compassion. Born from a ray of light emanating from Amita Bul's right eye, Kwan Seum Bosal assists those who request admittance to the Pure Land. Kwan Seum literally means 'perceive world sound,' which is also translated as 'one who hears the cries of suffering.' She is often pictured with her head slightly inclined as if listening . . . and holding a flask containing 'amrita,' the nectar of compassion. The quality that is represented by Kwan Seum Bosal is the compassionate wisdom which is within each of us."

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  8. Ham I am? Kathy is back.. and hamming it up with aplomb. Check out the photos of her just after she got into her room after the biopsy.

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  9. Bless you Kathy you are an inspiration. What a great decision. I've read about studies that found that a diet high in saturated fat and cholesterol stops and reverses fast growing brain tumors. If not, it's still a delicious way to go - I have thoroughly enjoyed this way of recovering from the brain damage I got from mercury poisoning. It seems to be working. Best of luck to you and I hope to see you around town for the next couple of decades at least.

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  10. Kathy and Julie, You are in our loving thoughts. Mary & Keith

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